Best and Worst

It was the best of times: • Playing with her dolls and the dollhouse Grandpa made for her • Running freely through the back yard, her blonde hair streaming behind her • Finger paints, chocolate doughnuts, silver jewelry • Hugs at night and a lullaby from Mommy •...

It’s Not Your Fault

So many of us women have been taught, “It’s your fault.” But that’s a lie. While Jamie endured the sexual abuse, her perpetrator whispered, “It’s your fault. You’re so pretty, you lured me into this.” The guilt and shame traveled with Jamie all her life. But it was a...

Learning to Trust

Trusting is hard to do, especially when you don’t know the outcome or when you can’t see any hope in the situation. As a child of sexual abuse, I grew up doubting that God really cared about me. The only one I trusted was me. I couldn’t trust the people who were...